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Jamie |
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Member banned by request Level: 47 Posts: 120/531 EXP: 739261 Next: 26942 Since: 04-01-14 Last post: 1989 days ago Last view: 1989 days ago |
It honestly feels like I'm stuck in a loop... like with the whole 'billion boards' thing, and a similar amount of names. I changed my name again, it seems, and I just cannot help it. Anyone got any idea of how to help... |
Ndymario |
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Koopa That MvL Hacker Level: 23 Posts: 72/103 EXP: 59825 Next: 7898 Since: 04-11-15 From: The Mushroom Kingdom Last post: 805 days ago Last view: 27 days ago |
*walk away from pc*
but more seriously though, just think do you *need* to do those things before you do them ____________________ Here's my MvL Hacking thread Also, if you hack NSMB DS, consider joining my Discord Server! Hope to see you there! |
Jamie |
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Member banned by request Level: 47 Posts: 126/531 EXP: 739261 Next: 26942 Since: 04-01-14 Last post: 1989 days ago Last view: 1989 days ago |
That's the issue. I don't tend to think things through and end up making very rash, rushed decisions. |
Thierry |
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banned by request Level: 49 Posts: 207/561 EXP: 844413 Next: 39470 Since: 03-08-13 Last post: 1342 days ago Last view: 26 days ago |
People don't keep telling you to get a life solely to annoy you.
Get hobbies. Get some friends. Hobbies can help you find new people. You won't need to stick to them like glue and end up mistaking it for love. |
GalacticPirate |
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Ninji ガラクティク・パイラト Level: 32 Posts: 160/246 EXP: 197566 Next: 8876 Since: 01-23-17 From: Paris, France Last post: 2050 days ago Last view: 1490 days ago |
Posted by Thierry Sure, friends are super easy to get, you can even get them on Amazon for a few bucks. It's certainly even easier when you have several mental problems!!!!!!!!1111... No, it doesn't work like that. |
shibboleet |
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Fire Mario DROP TABLE users; Level: 123 Posts: 4558/4661 EXP: 20825197 Next: 406069 Since: 07-07-12 Last post: 1322 days ago Last view: 335 days ago |
he never said it was easy ____________________ a |
GalacticPirate |
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Ninji ガラクティク・パイラト Level: 32 Posts: 161/246 EXP: 197566 Next: 8876 Since: 01-23-17 From: Paris, France Last post: 2050 days ago Last view: 1490 days ago |
I'm 16 and still didn't manage to get any friend IRL. So when I see people telling Jamie "get a life", it triggers me |
shibboleet |
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Fire Mario DROP TABLE users; Level: 123 Posts: 4559/4661 EXP: 20825197 Next: 406069 Since: 07-07-12 Last post: 1322 days ago Last view: 335 days ago |
there's a difference in between trying to get friends and not trying at all and doing the same mistakes over and over again. ____________________ a |
GalacticPirate |
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Ninji ガラクティク・パイラト Level: 32 Posts: 162/246 EXP: 197566 Next: 8876 Since: 01-23-17 From: Paris, France Last post: 2050 days ago Last view: 1490 days ago |
You are assuming he isn't trying, which isn't necessarily true. |
shibboleet |
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Fire Mario DROP TABLE users; Level: 123 Posts: 4561/4661 EXP: 20825197 Next: 406069 Since: 07-07-12 Last post: 1322 days ago Last view: 335 days ago |
I never said he isn't trying He's doing a bit of both. Trying to make friends but gets too attached. ____________________ a |
Jamie |
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Member banned by request Level: 47 Posts: 131/531 EXP: 739261 Next: 26942 Since: 04-01-14 Last post: 1989 days ago Last view: 1989 days ago |
Posted by shibboleet This. Plus I'm really awkward IRL with talking to people... |
Thierry |
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banned by request Level: 49 Posts: 209/561 EXP: 844413 Next: 39470 Since: 03-08-13 Last post: 1342 days ago Last view: 26 days ago |
'course, for a loner it's not gonna be easy to get friends just like that. whoever said anything about easy?
doesn't mean he can't try anything. for example, you can do extra activities and try talking to people while you're at it. you can look for communities that share the same hobbies as you, as to at least have a few people to talk to. romhacking communities are one thing, but you'll have to move on at some point. also, the hobbies part and the "doing the same mistakes over and over again" part still stands. you can do something else than endlessly restarting your boards. your members are gone, only the toxic nolifes will actually stick around. |
Jamie |
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Isaac |
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Lakitu anime tiddies Level: 46 Posts: 324/553 EXP: 700496 Next: 11278 Since: 04-18-16 From: USA Last post: 365 days ago Last view: 155 days ago |
What I don't understand is how people have such a problem making friends. You just find your group you "fit" in and you just hang out, after a few years or months your friends. What I did is made friends during middle/elementary and they either stuck around or left, the ones that stuck around are now my best friends. Could be easy for me cause I'm pretty easy going. dunno. e |
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Member Actually not active Level: 24 Posts: 117/120 EXP: 70789 Next: 7336 Since: 04-20-16 From: Melbourne, Australia Last post: 2309 days ago Last view: 1858 days ago |
Posted by Isaac It helps if you can comfortably "hang out" with people who aren't your friends. I know I can't. ____________________ No, not doing SM64DS hacking, just here for the waffles. |
GalacticPirate |
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Ninji ガラクティク・パイラト Level: 32 Posts: 164/246 EXP: 197566 Next: 8876 Since: 01-23-17 From: Paris, France Last post: 2050 days ago Last view: 1490 days ago |
Posted by Isaac Problem 1 : "finding a group" Problem 2 "fitting in it" Problem 3: "hanging out" |
Arisotura |
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Star Mario in this room you have a pile of apple pies Level: 163 Posts: 7866/9016 EXP: 56056121 Next: 431523 Since: 07-03-12 From: in a box Last post: 57 days ago Last view: 16 days ago |
well, I'm not super successful socially either so I can't give killer advice, but:
it's like for romantic/sexual relationships. going with the goal of "making friends" is a mistake, just like that of "getting a girlfriend". it's a mistake because you end up pressuring yourself. you constantly compare yourself to others, and end up thinking you have no chance because X or Y isn't as it should or whatever. when I moved out, I spent the first months looking for a job, and getting depressed because it didn't get anywhere. eventually, I joined a badminton club. it didn't make me have 500 friends, but I had good times with people, some I never met again, some I stuck around with, and playing a sport I like. and, despite still being unemployed, I felt good. I later joined militant groups and it's been one interesting ride since then. and, more importantly, I like what we do, I feel good about myself. so, find what makes you feel good. socialization happens as a side effect. ____________________ NSMBHD - Kafuka - Jul melonDS the most fruity DS emulator there is zafkflzdasd |
RicBent |
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Administrator Level: 45 Posts: 402/466 EXP: 652141 Next: 8023 Since: 09-25-12 From: Germany Last post: 995 days ago Last view: 150 days ago |
Same goes for me. I'm a total derp at being social as well. In school I didn't have a ton of friends. I prefer being arround with very few people I know and trust a ton. Most of them vanished from my life as they study elsewhere. At univ tho it is very easy to make friends as there are a ton of groups that do stuff. After joining the Hardware and OpenSource groups I got to know more people I feel good being together with than in my entire school life. So yeah, "find what makes you feel good. socialization happens as a side effect". ____________________ GitHub - YouTube - NSMBHD |
Jamie |
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Member banned by request Level: 47 Posts: 147/531 EXP: 739261 Next: 26942 Since: 04-01-14 Last post: 1989 days ago Last view: 1989 days ago |
Didn’t know you liked badminton Staple, I quite like it too
I’ll try to take your advice and perhaps join some sort of hobby-related group in my area if there are any I can think of that I am interested in |
RicBent |
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Administrator Level: 45 Posts: 403/466 EXP: 652141 Next: 8023 Since: 09-25-12 From: Germany Last post: 995 days ago Last view: 150 days ago |
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