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MK7tester
Posted on 11-13-14 01:32 AM Link | #51149
Sorry if this is wrong board/thread etc. but I really don't know where else to get advice on this.

My brother is a

****ing ***hole
, he's doing drugs, he's getting terrible grades, etc. etc. etc. Every day I get in the car from when my Dad picks me up from the bus stop, there is always bad news about my brother. "He has an F in Algebra 2 again" "He got caught doing xxx again" etc. etc. I think my brother has pretty much gotten this way because my Dad is overly nice and you could say a "bad parent". But my Dad's not, he's honestly not, I feel so bad because he's such a nice guy when I hear about how my friends parents are so mean and stuff like that, I feel bad. My brother is so mean to him though! When i'm trying to casually browse the computer my brother is freaking screaming at the top of his lungs to my dad and I just can't take it, I had to do something.

Today, I had enough, I was really pissed off of hearing the constant yelling, so I went up to my brother and told him to stop being a ****ing baby and accept being grounded. However, just because I did that, my brother punched me as hard as he could in my arm, and to be quite honest, it didn't hurt THAT bad nor did it leave a bruise, but I still cried, because I feel like my family is falling apart. My aunt and uncle have such nice kids that are going off to UC Los Angeles studying freaking medical stuff, when my brother is getting D's and F's, yelling back at his parents, doing drugs, hitting me when I just try to help my dad because I feel bad, etc. etc. etc.

And i'm supposed to be on good terms with my brother, I want to like him, but whenever he's doing something wrong and I call him out on it, he gets a personal ****ing vendetta against me and punches me and stuff when my dad goes off to work. And I can't even fight back, I just sit in my room like a baby and cry, because I feel so bad about it. But this isn't my responsibility, I want to call somebody to help my family out on this. My stepmom and my stepbrother don't do **** about it either, and I don't even live with my real mom anymore, my real mom is an alchoholic who I can no longer rely on.

So my question is, who can I call on to help me out with this problem? My family can't solve it on our own. My brother needs to get out of the house, stop being addicted to doing bad things, stop being an ***hole to my dad, etc. I feel like I want to call the Police or Child Protective Services, but then they would just get mad at my Dad for not being a strict enough parent. I don't want that to happen, my dad's a nice guy who doesn't deserve any of that. So that's my question, do you know of any service I should try calling to stop my brother from being a fricking screwup in life? I just want to live in a normal family again.

Sorry if this post contains a lot of bad language, is hard to understand, etc.

shibboleet
Posted on 11-13-14 01:35 AM Link | #51150
Possible therapy can be an option for that type of situation. But if that shit involves him doing drugs, then well...rehab might be another place.




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Arisotura
Posted on 11-13-14 01:48 AM Link | #51151
If your dad is too 'nice' to force your brother to stop his shit, something is wrong.


I would try getting him to do something, and go to the police if he doesn't do shit. Police isn't appealing if it can get your dad in trouble, though.


I know how this shit can feel. We're living similar shit with my sister.

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mariogalaxythree
Posted on 11-13-14 03:28 AM Link | #51158
You can swear freely, it's ok. Wow, this is a deep thread. My advice is similar to StapleButter's, set him on the right path, easy way or hard way. But it does depend on his age (Is he 18 yet or no)? If he's under 18, then yes, more direct involvement would work very well, but if he's 18 or over, you should lay off, as he's an adult now and can make his own decisions. But still, even if he is 18, you should still try to set him on the right path. Just do what you can (hope this helps).



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Jesse
Posted on 11-13-14 04:51 PM Link | #51163
I am guessing there went something wrong in your brothers life. I can feel you because I live in a house full of brothers and its also not always without pain. Its hard to talk with your brother about it but if I were you I would have a talk with my parents.

Degolegodyl
Posted on 11-13-14 09:50 PM Link | #51168
You asked advice to people on the internet, not a good idea. Anyway, if I were you I'd talk to a counselor at your school or call a kids help line and ask them to help you with that problem. If your brother is physically abusing you and your dad doesn't do anything you could always call the police and they'll stop him for good, if your willing to take it that far. Don't let anyone do harm to you, no matter if they are your family, there is no right to verbally or physically harm anyone.

MK7tester
Posted on 11-14-14 12:05 AM Link | #51171
Thanks for the replies guys, I'll see what I can do.

Posted by StapleButter


I know how this shit can feel. We're living similar shit with my sister.


It's a very tough situation indeed, best of luck to you and your sister. :(

SquidEmpress
Posted on 11-14-14 03:59 AM Link | #51177
*SquidEmpress hugs MK7tester.

Your brother seriously needs counseling fast. You and your family might also need psychological/psychiatric counseling too, as these type of situations can affect anyone who is being physically/verbally abused.

Also, I wouldn't trust the police because for the past few months, there has been police brutality going on. <_<>_> Look at what happened Michael Brown, for example.

Anyway, back on topic, if these type of situations continue, you can end up having a mental disorder such as borderline personality disorder. I'm not trying to scare you, though. I guess that I myself am borderline. Well, I hope you and your family will be able to solve this issue as soon as possible.

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