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Magikoopa I'm back Level: 104 Posts: 2912/3145 EXP: 11540741 Next: 321385 Since: 07-07-12 From: Dolphic Island Last post: 2570 days ago Last view: 2568 days ago |
Sorry if this is wrong board/thread etc. but I really don't know where else to get advice on this.
My brother is a Today, I had enough, I was really pissed off of hearing the constant yelling, so I went up to my brother and told him to stop being a ****ing baby and accept being grounded. However, just because I did that, my brother punched me as hard as he could in my arm, and to be quite honest, it didn't hurt THAT bad nor did it leave a bruise, but I still cried, because I feel like my family is falling apart. My aunt and uncle have such nice kids that are going off to UC Los Angeles studying freaking medical stuff, when my brother is getting D's and F's, yelling back at his parents, doing drugs, hitting me when I just try to help my dad because I feel bad, etc. etc. etc. And i'm supposed to be on good terms with my brother, I want to like him, but whenever he's doing something wrong and I call him out on it, he gets a personal ****ing vendetta against me and punches me and stuff when my dad goes off to work. And I can't even fight back, I just sit in my room like a baby and cry, because I feel so bad about it. But this isn't my responsibility, I want to call somebody to help my family out on this. My stepmom and my stepbrother don't do **** about it either, and I don't even live with my real mom anymore, my real mom is an alchoholic who I can no longer rely on. So my question is, who can I call on to help me out with this problem? My family can't solve it on our own. My brother needs to get out of the house, stop being addicted to doing bad things, stop being an ***hole to my dad, etc. I feel like I want to call the Police or Child Protective Services, but then they would just get mad at my Dad for not being a strict enough parent. I don't want that to happen, my dad's a nice guy who doesn't deserve any of that. So that's my question, do you know of any service I should try calling to stop my brother from being a fricking screwup in life? I just want to live in a normal family again. Sorry if this post contains a lot of bad language, is hard to understand, etc. |
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Fire Mario DROP TABLE users; Level: 123 Posts: 3247/4661 EXP: 20822363 Next: 408903 Since: 07-07-12 Last post: 1321 days ago Last view: 334 days ago |
Possible therapy can be an option for that type of situation. But if that shit involves him doing drugs, then well...rehab might be another place.
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Star Mario in this room you have a pile of apple pies Level: 163 Posts: 2729/9016 EXP: 56048501 Next: 439143 Since: 07-03-12 From: in a box Last post: 56 days ago Last view: 15 days ago |
If your dad is too 'nice' to force your brother to stop his shit, something is wrong.
I would try getting him to do something, and go to the police if he doesn't do shit. Police isn't appealing if it can get your dad in trouble, though. I know how this shit can feel. We're living similar shit with my sister. ____________________ NSMBHD - Kafuka - Jul melonDS the most fruity DS emulator there is zafkflzdasd |
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Member Blarg. Yoshi. Of. Composing. Affected by 'RainBlarg' Syndrome Level: 110 Posts: 3616/3627 EXP: 14006604 Next: 402282 Since: 12-24-12 Last post: 2237 days ago Last view: 2177 days ago |
You can swear freely, it's ok. Wow, this is a deep thread. My advice is similar to StapleButter's, set him on the right path, easy way or hard way. But it does depend on his age (Is he 18 yet or no)? If he's under 18, then yes, more direct involvement would work very well, but if he's 18 or over, you should lay off, as he's an adult now and can make his own decisions. But still, even if he is 18, you should still try to set him on the right path. Just do what you can (hope this helps).
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Member Normal user Level: 53 Posts: 428/688 EXP: 1120753 Next: 36366 Since: 09-05-13 Last post: 2350 days ago Last view: 1911 days ago |
I am guessing there went something wrong in your brothers life. I can feel you because I live in a house full of brothers and its also not always without pain. Its hard to talk with your brother about it but if I were you I would have a talk with my parents. |
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Larry Koopa /r/pcmasterrace Level: 92 Posts: 2000/2397 EXP: 7538876 Next: 218061 Since: 12-09-12 From: Toronto, Canada Last post: 1861 days ago Last view: 1747 days ago |
You asked advice to people on the internet, not a good idea. Anyway, if I were you I'd talk to a counselor at your school or call a kids help line and ask them to help you with that problem. If your brother is physically abusing you and your dad doesn't do anything you could always call the police and they'll stop him for good, if your willing to take it that far. Don't let anyone do harm to you, no matter if they are your family, there is no right to verbally or physically harm anyone. |
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Magikoopa I'm back Level: 104 Posts: 2913/3145 EXP: 11540741 Next: 321385 Since: 07-07-12 From: Dolphic Island Last post: 2570 days ago Last view: 2568 days ago |
Thanks for the replies guys, I'll see what I can do.
Posted by StapleButter It's a very tough situation indeed, best of luck to you and your sister. |
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Faking your suicide is a terrible thing to do. Get out. Level: 100 Posts: 2677/2912 EXP: 10030339 Next: 324057 Since: 01-30-13 Last post: 3170 days ago Last view: 3169 days ago |
*SquidEmpress hugs MK7tester.
Your brother seriously needs counseling fast. You and your family might also need psychological/psychiatric counseling too, as these type of situations can affect anyone who is being physically/verbally abused. Also, I wouldn't trust the police because for the past few months, there has been police brutality going on. Look at what happened Michael Brown, for example. Anyway, back on topic, if these type of situations continue, you can end up having a mental disorder such as borderline personality disorder. I'm not trying to scare you, though. I guess that I myself am borderline. Well, I hope you and your family will be able to solve this issue as soon as possible. ____________________ Super Mario LOLand Thanks to kaj for helping to port my Acmlmboard 2.5 layout to Acmlmboard 2.064! |
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